Dear People Of America,
America really need some change! In so many categories! Of course, as a country, America has one of the best living situations— we have so many opportunities, equal rights (yes do not fight me on this—— on a literally level it is completely true!), and this country is considered to be a rich country! So yes, for people who want to complain “I hate America” all day, just know that in comparison to countries around the world, we are SO LUCKY and so may people aspire to come to America for the sheer opportunities and lack of oppression alone! Actually I would imagine that many foreigners would find it surprising that so many Americans take on the victim mentality of “we are pressed”, weather it be female “oppression”, racial “oppression” (yes even white males...
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Dear People Of America,
America really need some change! In so many categories! Of course, as a country, America has one of the best living situations— we have so many opportunities, equal rights (yes do not fight me on this—— on a literally level it is completely true!), and this country is considered to be a rich country! So yes, for people who want to complain “I hate America” all day, just know that in comparison to countries around the world, we are SO LUCKY and so may people aspire to come to America for the sheer opportunities and lack of oppression alone! Actually I would imagine that many foreigners would find it surprising that so many Americans take on the victim mentality of “we are pressed”, weather it be female “oppression”, racial “oppression” (yes even white males...
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Dear Fibromyalgia,
I think it’s time we got to talking, you’ve been (unknowingly to me) squatting rent free in my body a while now and we’re only just getting acquainted. I am rather relieved to know it’s you and not something more malicious weaving pain through my tissues, self-doubt encircling my mind, and great sadness flowing beyond my heart. You make it so convenient and easy to be furious with you, to blame you for every cell that feels “off” within me, and for how disconnected and resentful I feel to the home of my soul, the one that continues to be betray me time and time again. I’m done fighting you and putting on the armor needed to combat you day in and day out. Instead, today I choose to forgive you…
For the days you leave me in a tearful writhing heap of agony on...
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As a survivor from depression, anxiety, and suicide- I know one or two things about how it feels to be ridiculed while on the inside you are just fighting for your life.
When being attacked by fellow classmates you instantly get anxious and furious. Things such as being mocked, being sassed back for no reason, getting straight up rude comments for no reason. (Note: with a strong personality you fight back and in reaction add more fuel to the fire to justify the way they are acting towards you) In addition to the anxiety, you add in the depression, you begin to feel as if the whole entire world hates you and there is no way out. That you are broken and worthless. To us, it's not just fun and games. It is harsh words that will forever ring in our ears. It creates memories that will last a...
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Dear World,
Why am I so inherently wrong? Why do parents pull their kids closer, with warnings to avoid "my kind". I've been told from a very young age that I am all that is wrong with the world, how is this fair? I'm not trying to offend anyone. I'm just trying to be the best me that i can be, just trying to live my life, aren't I. Why judge me for what I wear or how I dress? I go for a stroll at night and suddenly I'm unsavoury... I'm scum. Why is that? "My kind" are told that we can't raise kids... that we do it wrong. What is the right way? We love them, we care for them, we do what we can for them, and we want them to succeed... What are we missing?Do you know me? If you hadn't guessed I'm just a man. I see women every day expressing their sexuality by removing clothes, can I do...
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Dear you,
As the days go by, I find out more and more. I cannot help but go back and forth between anger and what seems like an unending sadness. After I wrote my first letter to you, we had a conversation through texting. It was the first time we had been able to talk since the break up. That night we ended up talking on the phone. The only reason that happened is because I told you I was seeking help from a consular. You answered the phone and began telling me I had to leave you alone. I shouldn't contact people because "You knew what I was trying to do". Well you actually do not know what I was trying to do. I messaged your Grandma because she is on vacation and I probably will never see her again and I was genuinely wishing her well. You told me I couldn't talk to my best friend...
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The Stigma of Addiction - An Open Letter to my ER doctor, Dr. Ballhopper *
I know. Another open letter. Every time I see one, I roll my eyes. Do they really accomplish anything other than allowing the writer to vent about some perceived wrong? Do the recipients actually read them and think, “hmm, they’re right? I never looked at it that way. I should change my ways and be more understanding, less ignorant, more tolerant, more forgiving, less of a dick, etc. I really don’t know. Yet here I am writing one.
Are they passive aggressive? I mean, why not just address the letter to the person to whom it’s directed and pop it in an envelope or send it in an email? A private letter to my ER doctor. In my case, as I’m sure in many others, I want to be heard. Not just by the ER...
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Dear Fox News and Yahoo online editors:
I recently came across a syndicated Fox New article on Yahoo’s website entitled, “Stars Without the Warpaint,” and was absolutely appalled at the captions in this slide show. The captions repeatedly showed captured images of celebrities without makeup, or not being glammed up by their stylists. Time after time the women in the images were described as "scary", "puffy", "tired", "old", "partied out", "seeing better days", the list goes on and on. What is worse is the images were often next to or followed by a picture that shows the women being styled, with make-up and captions along the lines of saying, “There’s the girl we know” or “What a little make-up can do.” There are 136 slides degrading women, all of whom have feelings, insecurities,...
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For years, I have struggled with being a black girl. I remember vividly being in sixth grade; I grew up in a predominately white neighborhood and not many of my classmates looked like me. One day, I found a note in my homeroom class that said “I don’t know why boys like Morgan, she stuffs her bra”. I was one of the more developed girls in the sixth grade class and for that I did get UN wanted attention from my male classmates. Naturally (not saying for everyone) but black girls tend to develop more than white girls. For years, I struggled with trying to hide my protruding hips and thighs with too big pants and loose shirts. I was attracted to the white boys with blue eyes and never could understand why instead of asking me to be their girlfriends, they only commented on my physical...
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Have you taken your teen daughter shopping for school clothes lately? If you had you would realize there are barely any choices for them to meet dress code.
You make/sell Jeans with rips, holes and tears in them, but barley any without. Your dress code says no rips and at least mid-thigh (fingertip) in length. You design/sell shorts that are shorter than mid-thigh or fingertip length in mass but knee and mid-thigh (fingertip) are scarce, especially when school starts. The only shorts that are available to meet dress code are uniform shorts and sometimes denim Bermuda shorts. Even if the girl’s butt cheeks are not showing, but shorter than mid-thigh, they are dress coded and sent to change. Change into what?! Jeans with rips, yoga pants (also not allowed by your dress code), or...
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